In loving memory of Jacob Matthew Cazier
Welcome to our tribute to Jacob Matthew Cazier. Thank you deeply for all that have comforted us through this rough time
I have moved the poems to the "News" section, along with a few others. Please feel free to browse through the site.
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Daddy please don't look so sad
Mommy please don't cry
I'm in the arms of Jesus
And he sings me lullabies
My Birthstone is Amethyst (Sincerity)
My Flower is Violet or Primrose (Violet, Sky Blue or Yellow)
My Astrological Sign is Pisces
Born in the Chinese Year of The Rooster
Jacob means supplanter(meaning to take the place of and serve as a substitute for, especially by reason of superior excellence or power)
Email us at emcazier@hotmail.com
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-----------------------MY STORY------------------------
We lost our angel from birth complications. I was attempting a VBAC (Vaginal Birth after Cesarean), and my uterus ruptured. It tore the full lenght of the uterus down the middle, which is the thinnest part of the uterus.
I started having contractions on the morning of Feb. 13th. They were every ten minutes and about 30 seconds long. After about 30 hours of those I decided I needed to go to the hospital. When I got there the contractions started getting sparatic and so they sent me home and said to come back when they were 5 minutes apart and 60 to 90 seconds long. By the time I got home they were back to the regular 10 minutes apart, so I tried to take a warm bath to move things along. After about 36 hours of these contractions they started getting a little stronger and a lot closer together, at one point they were one on top of the other, but they were still only 45 second long. I called my doctors' office and the nurse told me to come on in and they would check things out. I was waiting for my husband to come home from picking up my first son, Isaac, from daycare, and I felt a sudden burning sensation in my lower right abdomen. It was the worst pain I had ever felt. We rushed to hospital, and I called the doctor on the way and told him to meet me there. When I got to the hospital the nurse was unable to find a heartbeat, and when they broke my water there was blood in the fluid. At that point I was rushed into surgery. The doctor tried for 20 minutes to revive Jacob to no avail. I got to hold him and keep him with me for about 7 hours before I let them take him. The chances of having a uterine rupture is about 1%. It is very rare, and I didn't even realize that it was a risk. Since then I have done a lot of research about it and found a wonderful support group for mother that have had uterine rupture. the address is below.
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AUterineRuptureSupportgroup
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